Stories/Articles

A Motherhood Statement by Antoinette Eklund

Oh hello. I have something to say. Today’s the day, I am going to make it. A motherhood statement. A broad sweeping claim, like arms wrapped around you. An encompassing statement, a forgiving, welcoming reassuring statement. A motherhood statement...

A tale of two toilets by Kylie Ladd

When it comes to toilet training, less is definitely more. That is, the less time and effort you have to spend on it the better. Nappies are a nuisance, but following your child around with a potty and a bottle of carpet shampoo is far more tedious...

Absent parents by Heather Rae

Once again this year my son will have his uncle stand in for the ‘Fathers’ and Special Person’s Night’ at kindergarten, because his father will be overseas for the Fathers’ Day celebrations...

Alex by Donna Lee Austin

We’re out in the backyard enjoying the weekend sun. The grass is getting long and the lawnmower is broken. I’m pulling out the chickweed to give to the old lady down the street...

Being ‘In Control’ – The Possible and Impossible in Parenting by Patty Wipfler

Parents are expected to stay ‘in control’ of their lives, their children, and themselves. Some major parts of this expectation are impossible to fulfil...

Can somebody help, I’m lost by Penni Drysdale

“Right, I can do this.” I exhale as though blowing out candles on an enormous cake. “Nappies, plastic bags, wipes, bibs, clean outfit, wrap, nappies, keys, mobile…”

Charlie takes over by Jo Barney

I tightened my arms that encircled his waist and held on. Charlie, his feet beating against my legs, stiffened and yelled, “I hate you, Jo, I hate you...

Co-sleeping: More than just cuddles? by Edwina Shaw

Social isolation is strongly linked to depression and other health problems. Human beings are social animals. We do better when we live with others. We are healthier and happier. Why then are so many of us ending up alone?

Dead-Nana by Tess Evans

Mikey sat on the back step and thoughtfully pushed an exploratory finger up his nose. He was gazing with some satisfaction at the result, when his heart began to beat uncomfortably fast...

Does your man still date you? by K. Danielle Edwards

It was eerie, the looming feeling that followed her like an apparition that refused to give up on this world – the feeling, the gnawing knowing, that she had married the right man but married into the wrong family...

Family fix-me-up by Rebecca Chaney

“Bring that sand back!  It’s for making concrete, not for your sandpit!”
Raising children and renovating your home. The two just don’t go together...

Five principles for spiritual parenting by Mimi Doe

We know more about nutrition than past generations. We’ve identified learning disorders and new educational techniques. We give our children every advantage we can afford, and some we cannot afford...

Gemstones by Michelle Brock

My sense of abandonment intensifies as I turn over the ignition and back the van out of the driveway. The car feels empty – the once endless chatter of youthful voices replaced by the silence of the vacant seats behind me. Who wants to come to the markets with me?...

Jungle Hour by Cassy Cochrane

Known variously as Arsenic Hour or The Witching Hour, Jungle Hour is that period of late afternoon when the day dilly dallies as to whether it will become night or not. It can never quite seem to make up its mind, and this is what babies can’t stand, because babies like routines...

Laboured experiences by Kylie Ladd

“I’m going to have gas and pethidine, but nothing stronger,” my friend Jemma* told me shortly before giving birth to her first child...

Loving ourselves and our children by Charmaine Saunders

Think of how the world would change for the better if all our children knew how precious they are and lived their lives in that belief? Self-love isn’t vanity or arrogance but a genuine confidence and having a healthy relationship with one’s own inner being...

Max and his cool new-age Dad. Not! by Kenny Williams

Max: Not all modern dads are superheroes. Some are stuck in the transition – take my dad. He’d like to think of himself as one of those cool new-age dads, you know the ones; able to change a nappy in under a minute, cooks, cleans...

Excerpt from Motherhood: How should we care for our children? by Anne Manne

My generation breathed in the assumptions of feminism as naturally as air. Our participation as equals in the traditional male worlds of work and achievement came more easily to us than perhaps to any previous generation of young women...

Mothers’ meeting by Jacinta Nandi

At the weekly mothers’ meeting, the social worker who’s in charge of the children’s area, Agnieska, tells us how we should react when we catch our children masturbating...

One for the family by Philip Loyd

Charlie Easeman rolled over in bed when he smelled her perfume, her everyday touch reminding him what time it was and that he was in need of a shave...

Precious by Alyson Hill

From high up in a cool, weightless place comes a distant sound; a babbling, not of water flowing but of little voices, one unintelligible and the other authoritative and rising and, alas, I am woken from bliss...

Roots, wings and other things (excerpt) by Donna Spalding

Our unplanned, multi-racial family had started off in the usual way, with the birth of our first and only biological child. The family grew, through numerous adoptions, to the unusually large number of eight children...

Rosie and me by Sue Madison

A mother called me today. Actually, a stepmother. She is a little worried about Megan. She isn’t sure if she should be. And she doesn’t know if she even has a right to be worried...

Sex and the kiddies by Kylie Ladd

The shift from couple to family brings change in many areas: financial, career, lifestyle. Perhaps the largest however are in the area that started it all in the first place. From sleepless nights of passion to well, just sleepless nights, here’s your guide to sex after children...

Sleeping with Lionel Richie by Darren Groth

“It’s time.” Zach stares at me and groans. Two simple words have shattered his rocking chair reverie. “Now?” “Now.” “She’s only been awake for an hour and a half...”

Story Magic by Phyllis McDuff

As life emerged on earth from the primeval slime, there was a group of cells that carried the potential to become human — to transform the jelly blob into the thinking, feeling, dreaming being we call man...

Superhero play – Good or evil? Can we really save the world before naptime? by Jayne Kearney

I swear my son, Levi, came out of the womb wearing a Spiderman costume – much to my dismay at the time. I was never going to be a mother who encouraged superhero play...

Tales of the beach by Deborah J. Smith

One day, two intrepid adventurers – one with a year’s Spanish and the other with a phrasebook – braved a trip with the local Spaniards from the immaculately clean Granada station on a big, cushy tour bus...

The current situation for parents and the work of parenting by Patty Wipfler

The situation for parents is growing more difficult in most countries of the world today, in spite of technological and material advances in the Western world. Capitalism and the ethic that supports it is encroaching on all the cultures of the world...

The curse by Jennifer Varela

My mother cursed me. She pointed at me, summoned all her strength, and hurled the most heinous words she could summon straight into my little five-year-old eyes…

The Divided Heart, Art and Motherhood An excerpt from the book by Rachel Power

In the month after my son was born I was standing in the laundry, washing miniature jumpers in the cavernous steel sink. The window overlooked our overgrown courtyard and, at its centre, a multitude of white cotton nappies...

The friendship cycle of a mother by Kerstin Lindros

It is no surprise some friendships don’t survive the turbulent toddler years. But I didn’t know that back then. I was a first-timer...

The making of mates by Kylie Ladd

Parents worry about many things when their child first starts school. Will she adjust to the long day? Can he remember where the toilets are? Have I given her enough to eat...

The ‘no more nappies party’ by Kathy Szaters

We had a ‘no more nappies’ party at our house. First, we decorated the house with balloons and hand-made posters. Then, we set theparty food out on the table – there was an array of sausage rolls, cocktail frankfurts, and chips, accompanied by iced chocolate doughnuts for dessert...

The recalcitrant by Stella Jones

“Harvey, why are you so lazy and uncommunicative?” There was no answer eight-year-old Harvey could give without risking further reproof...

The Sunflower Dress by Michelle Brock

‘No, I do it Self!’ Annie declares defiantly as I scoop her dripping body out of the bath and bundle her in a towel. As I race towards her bedroom, large droplets plop from the tangled spaghetti of her hair...

The Two Year Old Teacher by Tiggy Johnson

As parents we are generally open to accepting that our toddlers provide us much opportunity to learn about ourselves. But what about when it comes to our own learning?...

The Umbilical Word – Excerpt by Darren Groth

The early morning sun streamed through the frosty glass of the spare room’s only window. The angle of the rays, coupled with the passage permitted by the gaping wooden slats of the attached blind, saw much of the light fall upon the computer work-station. It was radiant...

The Woodcutter’s Wife: A Stepmother’s Tale by Dolla S. Merrillees

When asked what I would like to be when I grew up, I can’t say I actually aspired to being a divorcée, however glamorous it sounded, or, for that matter, a wicked stepmother...

Extract from Thriving at school: A practical guide to help your child enjoy the crucial school years by Dr John Irvine & John Stewart

Education or learning? ‘What are we doing to our kids? We have more benchmarks, more standardised basic skills tests, more objectives and progress checks, but many kids still don’t listen, don’t care, don’t respect authority...

Tricky Kids: Transforming conflict and freeing their potential (Excerpt) by Andrew Fuller

Stubborn, pigheaded, defiant, oppositional, free-ranging, having a mind of their own, iron-willed, forceful, determined, hardheaded, free-spirited or just plain difficult...

Using words with care by Mimi Doe

Words have the power to destroy or heal. When words are both true and kind, they can change the world. Jack Kornfield...

Video Born Killers by Yolanda Corduff

The brave new world of computer-generated virtual-realities, blockbuster action films and violent video games has spawned many new industries, most reaping financial benefits many of us can only dream of...

When Mummy’s breast is the security object
by Kirsten Ehrlich Davies

According to my child-raising bible, a toddler’s security object is an important symbol of comfort, bridging the transition from Mummy’s arms into the big scary world...