
Tom is growing up in an ocean place
of royal blues and white breaking waves,
on his daily outings he sifts Bondi Beach
through his fingers and watches intently
the joggers, seagulls and other toddlers
in prams on the promenade.
Tom knows what ‘park’ means
and when we arrive he calls,
“mama, mama” and wriggles like
an upside-down beetle in his stroller
until he is freed.
His favourites are the see-saw horse,
the baby swing, the bottom third
of the slippery-dip and the fine wood-chip
covering the ground which he scoops,
scatters and pats on the curved surface
of the golden plastic tunnel.
Tom’s friends are the rainbow lorikeets
that squawk and swoop outside
his bedroom window at dusk,
the Bondi dogs whose owners sit in coffee shops
and allow him to stare and pat,
long-haired cats that slink and
roll onto their backs on sunlit footpaths,
street-wise pigeons pecking for scraps,
seagulls waiting for us to finish our lunch,
and Timothy, the stuffed raccoon,
Alice, and Finn.
At North Bondi park
the bottom of the slippery-dip
doubles as a drum,
Tom stands on the wood-chip
and beats his song, his drum shines
like newly polished silver
resonating from his
dimpled hands.
I pinch my thumb
in the tight catch of
Tom’s high chair strap
and gasp with pain,
Tom studies me intently
from his perch
and makes soft
cooing sounds.
“Being at home can be fun, insulating, relaxed, boring or isolating ... depending on how the day is going.”*
School holidays are almost over in my part of the world – six long weeks of noise and squabbling balanced by hot, lazy days at the beach or the pool with lots of daring exploits and laughter. Many of our days were spent at home, basking in simple pleasures like baking, playing games or outdoor pursuits – trying to relax the everyday routines of school-morning bustle and ‘having to be somewhere on time’. However pleasant, I must admit to being relieved that life gets back to normal next week, and I can reclaim some of my own time for writing again!
* From Being Mummy by Anne‑marie Taplin published April 2007